Its Never too Late…


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Have you ever felt that you are too late to change or to learn something new? Let me tell you today, “ITS NEVER TOO LATE”

I was talking to an old guy once, to break silence in the office while carrying on with our duties, the conversation made us alive and keep on working. The topic we picked is can an old person be enrolled in learning sessions and learn as any person, the reason he though it might  be is, Old people are facing hardship to learn as they are getting old and their mind as well are too old to learn something new.

The reason might seem a bit convincing when you imagine an old guy of almost 60 to 80`s in class learning. What do you think? What would have been your answer if your were in my shoes?

I told him, learning is a choice despite the age. I understand as we got old, our learning capability decreases due to aging but that should not be an excuse not to learn and stay idle. He finally agreed with me somehow.

Would like to hear your thoughts on the matter.


Color your attitude…


A new day, new plans to success. Keep you attitude positive towards  every plan.

Many get distracted with little challenges and forget their targets of the day.

Keep calm, maintain your positive attitude and your day will be perfect.

An Office Boy

A jobless man applied for the position of ‘office boy’ at a very big company.

The employer interviewed him, then a test: clean the floor.

“You are hired.” – the employer said. ”Give me your email address, and I’ll send you the application to fill, as well as when you will start.”

The man replied, “I don’t have a computer, neither an email.”

“I’m sorry,” said the employer, “if you don’t have an email that means you do not exist. And who doesn’t exist, cannot have the job.”

The man left with no hope. He didn’t know what to do, with only $10 USD in his pocket.

He then decided to go to the supermarket, bought a 10kg tomato crate, then sold the tomatoes door to door. In less than two hours, he succeeded and doubled his capital.

He repeated the operation 3 times and returned home with $60 USD. The man realized that he could survive by this way, and started to go every day earlier, and returned late. Thus, his money doubled or tripled every day. Shortly later, he bought a cart, then a truck, and then he had his own fleet of delivery vehicles.

Five years later, the man’s company was one of the biggest food retailers. He started to plan his family’s future, and decided to have a life insurance.

He called an insurance broker and chose a protection plan. When the conversation was concluded, the broker asked him his email. The man replied: “I don’t have an email.”

The broker replied curiously, “You don’t have an email, and yet have succeeded to build an empire. Do you imagine what you could have done if you had an email?”

The man paused for a while, and replied: “An office boy!”

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Don’t be discouraged if something is not in your favor today. Better opportunities are waiting ahead.

How self-motivated are you?


Are you motivated to achieve what you really want in life? And how hard do you push yourself to get things done? Wanting to do something and motivating yourself to actually do it are two different things.

So, what’s the difference between those who never reach their goals, year after year, and those who achieve one goal after another? Often, it’s their self-motivation. Self-motivation is the force that keeps pushing us to go on – it’s our internal drive to achieve, produce, develop, and keep moving forward.

When you think you’re ready to quit something, or you just don’t know how to start, your self-motivation is what pushes you to go on. With self-motivation, you’ll learn and grow – regardless of the specific situation. That’s why it’s such a fundamental tool for reaching your goals, achieving your dreams, and succeeding, in this journey we call life.

With self Motivation helps you realize what you really want in life and really follow your dream, Many of us lose self focus along the road because we are distracted by anything fancy that comes along the way, be it friends manipulation, technology gadgets, fashion, challenges of a hard life, forced marriage, carrier difficulties, inferiority complex. All these will never be out of our life no matter how focused and motivated you are.

You need to prioritize and set your goals, step your feet where no one can ever push you out of the grid. Make your own decision and follow it with Passion. With such focus, nothing will come in your way that you can not handle.

Written by Felix Alex Massinda

To youth…

I am singing to all youth…

There is no life meant for us, it`s us who decide how our life will be and make it happen. I understand we are in the generation of rapid globalization and technological advancement.

Let us not be carried away from our path, everything else people do or have its because they have worked hard for. We are called the generation of tomorrow, i don`t even know what that means but i know i have to make a change to myself and to the society around me.

Let us not forget who we really are and where we are coming from, let us not sleep in bar but rather in offices, let us not worship alcohol but rather the almighty God, Let us not live under people`s control but rather let us grab the wheel and drive our own car.

Wind will go different direction; let us choose our own direction, for great opportunity will never be found in the crowd but in the calmness of our vision and goals towards success.

Let us lead without titles, show example to those who we lead and that will bring positive impact to us and to the society as a whole.

"Good morning to you all"

Written by Felix Massinda

Tempus Pecunia

A brick of a house can live forever

Not if anything hits it badly

A life of the world can be protected

If its circle is well protected

Pushing the ocean into the pond

It’s a dream utopian had dreamed for years

A well monitored watch will never lie

Not if it had a reason to shut down

We forget a life span in our hands

Putting external factors responsible

For matters they cannot control

Serve the energy for the most important task

Rather wasting it fighting for the priceless coin

A bowl of water is never a complete eye of truth

But it at list its honest to show you clearly what a bowl entails

The nature of human is very dark

Clearly when its psychology is transparent

It`s hard to open the knot

Tied with an open mind determined

Setting the view of the house falls into the interest of a heart

The affection it gives not even the pain can stop

Intrigued it is

Until apart is the option to choose.

Sides will never set

For the time I bought isn’t enough.


Written by Felix Alex Massinda

Live your worthy self life…


Life at times becomes hell, so scared of our own initiatives, anything we want to start and make it in the list of our success becomes the obstacles to our own vision because we are scared. At last the only alternative we embrace is living under someone`s dream. Listen and do all that they tell us to do.

When you come to open your eyes, it becomes too late and spend the regretful life.

Realize your potential today and start depending on yourself. Life is to short to spend it in someone`s. go out and grab the opportunity that put smiles on your face.

"Go be hero of your life"

Written by Felix Massinda

Become Successful….

Written by Felix Massinda

Becoming successful has been the most hard work to pursue for many of us, a lot tried different ways that they think its the right way for them. Frankly speaking becoming a successful person you need to dig more than that.

The most successful men and women on earth have had to correct certain weak spots in their personalities before they began to succeed. The most outstanding of these weaknesses which stand between men and women and success are INTOLERANCE, CUPIDITY, GREED, JEALOUSY, SUSPICION, REVENGE, EGOTISM, CONCEIT, THE TENDENCY TO REAP WHERE THEY HAVE NOT SOWN, and the HABIT OF SPENDING MORE THAN THEY EARN.

So if you want to become successful, you currently know what have to be done.

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I Love You

Written by Felix Alex Massinda

A word

That changes people`s lives

Move them in different direction

Its lovely how many believe in fantasy

For few follow the wind that blows some in mysterious ways

Encourages people to know their abilities on the contrary does the same

Risks people`s live, saves some as well

Love or no love people sacrifices

Bundle of definitions

Everyone has one

Experience it gives

People to define

Along the embrace it

Regrets are part of love as well

Finding it

Is what moves the world

Spinning it in our hearts

For our mouth to praise it

For our minds to think of it

Reshaping life for better or worse

Its all it does the most

I love you

Soothes life

Removes pain

Takes away the worries

Loneliness becomes a dream

Attached to someone`s life

Believing that’s life

Ending it is the hard part of all

Loosing hope and change of ways

Best way of "I love you"

Is self preservation

Alone you love first

Then someone follows

Nothing will disturb

Let love find you

For honesty and loyalty to define your love

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What Life Holds for Me…

Written by Felix Massinda

Our culture teaches us if we want something in life, we have to look for number one. They say life is a battle, a game, a race, a competition of which in way or the other I comply with this argument.

I remember in my primary education in school, when it came to examination results, few of those counted to have been in number one to ten were called out for gifts of which I pondered of it as scandalizing others who never got a chance. Teachers would stand in front of the students and start praising so called top ten students as the brightest students. I used to dislike the whole point of mentioning the top ten, that does not mean I was never called on the front.

Since then, I knew if you want something in life, you better work hard and aim for the number one. Everyone around are seen as competitors, be it friends, family members, co-workers, schoolmates. Bad enough the more they win the less the chances you get.

However, at times we try to appear generous and optimistic for others successes but inwardly, privately. So many are eating our hearts out when others achieve, they forget that someone`s achievement is the commitment and self will decision towards what they want to do. They will push you and give you speech to bust your self esteem forgetting their lives.

Every mind works independently to pursue the dreams but at times greatness comes to those who master the art of we. Working together and share ideas at times seem to be the best way to achieve the goals and move on.

True greatness will be achieved through minds that works together with common goal for common benefit.

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The Dalai Lama:
“We each have a physical structure, a mind, emotions. We are all born
in the same way, and we all die. All of us want happiness and do not
want to suffer.”

“I believe that the proper utilization of time is this: if you can, serve
other people, other sentient beings. If not, at least refrain from harming
them. I think that is the whole basis of my philosophy.”

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Let Love Show You…

Written by Felix Massinda

love copy

Each of us is a bundle of emotions, behaviors, and potentialities, all of which we must accept and even love in order to achieve what in life so called “personal congruence,” the perfect alignment of our desires and values with our capabilities.

Love is the best thing that keep us moving forward though at times it is the same thing that holds us back from our dreams. I believe “People work perfectly.” Our specific thoughts, feelings, and actions have produced what we are today; by changing these “inputs” you will get different results—a different you and this can only be achieved if we positively use Love towards our dreams and not otherwise.

Love whatever that your doing and do it to the best, love those who love you and never ignore those who sacrifices their everything for you, Positively speaking, love can make you unleash the greatness within you and you will be surprised.

Let love flow in your veins and let it be in you heart, learn to follow your heart and do what makes you happy despite all the hardship and setback that may come your way. There is no honor in running away from love and not to do what you love because you are afraid to ruin your reputation, but there is honor in holding towards what makes you happy and be yourself because until then, you have something to live for. Many don’t have that, so Hold on to whatever it is that you love and do it to the best you can. Let love flow in you and let it show mightier thing you can do with your life, let it show you your capabilities and your potential.

" There is no success in hatred but in love"

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It`s all i Ask…

Written by Felix Massinda

Ever been disappointed before… seeing life from negative point of view? ever been hurt and discouraged to the edge of giving your life for nothing? thinking of becoming a runner of life, just because everything you tempt to try fails bad enough you see no sign to prosper?

You don`t have to be scared anymore, how many times have you ever asked for something that really matters in your life and you don`t get it at once? Anything we do in this world needs courage and faith for all of us to move on. we might be good enough or smart enough to deserve all that we think we need to have, who said that some people deserve and some don`t? that`s where we go wrong in life.

If we are all human beings, who deserve better than someone else? we are all equal in life, we only needs to work so hard towards what we believe and have faith and courage to pursue them no matter the hindrances along the way. If you ask me, i will tell you, the time you want to give up, is the time you happen to be so close to success because its time when you either nearly or exactly know your fear that scares you to move on and its the time that you badly need faith and courage to  move on and discover the solution to your life and become successful.

There is no time to waste now, don`t count your life as a waste or a nuisance but rather discover how wonderful and unique it is. I ask you to have faith and courage to face your shadow and reflection of yourselves in a mirror because that`s what you have to start with for your successful life. Make it a new beginning.

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We Are not Robots

Written by James Allen


With the ability of mind in” creating our inner character and outer circumstances, Thinking is an in-depth exploration of the central idea of self-realization and to take an assumption we all share— that because we are not robots we therefore control our thoughts—and reveal its fallacy. Because most of us believe that mind is separate from matter, we think that thoughts can be hidden and made powerless; this allows us to think one way and act another. However, the unconscious mind generates as much action as the conscious mind, and while we may be able to sustain the illusion of control through the conscious mind alone, in reality we are continually faced with a question: “Why can`t I make myself do this or achieve that?” In noting that desire and will are sabotaged by the presence of thoughts that do not accord with desire,

“We do not attract what we want, but what we are.” Achievement happens because you as a person embody the external achievement; you don’t “get” success but become it. There is no gap between mind and matter.


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There is nothing to Fear than Fear itself.

Written by Nancy Suleiman

We normally encounter fear in many times in our lives

From recognition, how do i look , am i proper, do i look fat, do i have something on my face which goes to the question why are they staring at me, are they laughing at me and sometimes asking question to one self as surely i feel they are talking about me………..

Fear from success, ohh it`s the exam again will i fail again, what will happen if i fail, am i so stupid, am i reading the right material why do my colleague seems to know a lot more than me, will i pass, will the exam be tough, mhh i think the teacher doesn’t like me?

Fear from commitments, will this relationship work, what if i mess up, is she/he the right-one for me? am i too much? may be am demanding too much? does she truly loves me and for who i am or she got her on interest? what if she breaks my heart? what are the chances of our future? no i cant i don’t think this will work late me wait again, it`s too painful?

` Fear from achievements, this include work, personality into what you want to become, interview in works get a person to lose a job planned for him struggling with the mind will i get this job, the applicants are many, the company seems to have a lot of competition i think I’ll get fired soon?

Fear of trying to do the best simply there others capable in doing the best than you, fear of not trying to take a risk in investments and different business what if it won`t work this is ridiculous my friends will laugh at me? what if the money won`t come back no i cant i will hold to my current position it will hold me i guess….

These kind of fears makes us to not become the ideal person we want to be or better yet the examples and the best role model to family members and friends and even outsiders by the way we look, appearance, performance, and even abilities controlled by the fear in mind that we are not good enough or capable enough to stand for others, It be the example and even change to some of the people the fear within close our chances in overcoming challenges resulting to suicidal attempts and they also block our chances in different opportunities of life. Hence never enjoying what life can give us and mostly the beauty of mother nature, we all have purpose in this life you won`t know you`re purpose until you try, stand up for yourself, believe in yourself, speak out your thoughts, be creative, accept the challenges, find meaningful solution, accept who you are, be brave and have confidence no matter what and you will see the world is not a bad place to be….

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We mostly lose sight at times because we do not know what our lives might endure in a day. we become so astonished by the situations at work, home or at our daily activities. Mind you; at the time we are confused, carried away by happiness, hurt or bored… are not the right time to make a decision because we are unprepared. We might have a right solution but at least try to meditate the possibility of any situation you might face. Wake up with a positive mind and success ideas will come in place.

“Begin each day by telling yourself: Today I shall be meeting with interference, ingratitude, insolence, disloyalty, ill-will and selfishness—all of them due to the offenders’ ignorance of what is good or evil. But for my part I have long perceived the nature of good and its nobility, the nature of evil and its meanness, therefore none of those things can injure me, for nobody can implicate me in what is degrading.”

“Love nothing but that which comes to you woven in the pattern of your destiny. For what could more aptly fit your needs?” “Everything—a horse, a vine—is created for some duty. This is nothing to wonder at: even the sun-god himself will tell you, ‘This is a work I am here to do,’ and so will all the other sky-dwellers. For what task, then, were you yourself created? For pleasure? Can such a thought be tolerated?”

Obviously it cannot be tolerated, learn the secret to reduce risk before you encounter one. For as many you achieve, strong you become. Do not give blames and sadness, encouragement a chance. Color your life with positive colors, close your life with self-esteem rope, stand your house with Prayers Logs and your life will be a happy life you have ever imagined.

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i was  abandoned

i was left

my life has been put into  chaos

my decisions

my life

my steps

my talks

haven`t been outstanding ever since

i made mistake

i faced hell

i had no one

i had no affection

i had no love

you  came along

gave me hope


motivated me

pull me up whenever i went down

gave me trust

affection that carries my heart away

its you whom i adore

its  You whom i love

its You whom i wanna spend the rest of my life with

its You whom i give my trust, loyalty and my love

its You whom my heart have chosen to live with

Your the queen of my heart

and i give it all to you

its tender care and love that i give for the rest of our lives.


Written by Felix Alex Massinda

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To Let Go

To let go does not mean to stop caring, it means I can’t do it for someone else.

To let go is not to cut myself off, it’s the realization that I can’t control another.

To let go is not to enable, but to allow learning from natural consequences.

To let go is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands.

To let go is not to try to change or blame another, it’s to make the most of myself.

To let go is not to care for, but to care about.

To let go is not to fix, but to be supportive.

To let go is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being.

To let go is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes, but to allow others to affect their own destinies.

To let go is not to be protective, it’s to permit another to face reality.

To let go is not to criticize, or regulate anyone, but to try to become what I dream I can do.

To let go is to fear less, and to love more.

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Rise above the limits…

One of the worst moment ever in life is where you have a feeling that people despise you over millions of reasons you don’t know, taking you for nothing where you live,  nothing you do that wont rise debates in the society. You have nothing to worry about.

In life, nothing you do is perfect in the eyes of those around you, it doesn’t have to take years for you to rise because you are scared to go for what you want knowing it will go about the streets and make headlines on the news papers. The questions is, why do you care so much over what people talk about you?( that is incompetency), why would you care about what they think of you? Trust me, no matter how many people we get along with nicely; its hard to tell if they mean the relationship or they are just attached to us for several reasons that they know, they might be attached to you because they know they will have whatever they want from you. Some only need you when they have problems knowing “you are always there”. Sometimes we expect so much from those we care and at the end when you come to realize they don’t take it they way you? you get hurt.

It is the moment we all have to know what we worthy, living the life we want to is the only better decision that you wont regret instead of attaching your life to some things that wont guarantee your happiness at the end. I am not saying we should not expect from our friends, I am saying we should know what we want and get over it. If something you love, want, badly need doesn’t come into terms with you, let it not take you away from you dreams. One more important point to note “Do not attach your future to anyone” because the future is in our hands not to any ones` hands.

Despite having whatever kind of life we have, be it good, poor, rich. it doesn’t matter we all face depressions sometimes, expecting a lot from friends, family or listen to what other say about us and sometimes we forget who really are or what we want and live in their lives.

Its time to act and live your life, The future we want is in our hands, not to any one else. You can rise above heavens and live your life happily.

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Devious Mouth…

scary dreams

scares joys

heart calls

listens debts

paying sounds dumps wealth

Grabs cents

that buys

affection kills

slowly smiling at death

age differently

with my physical appearance

slowly I dime

scents in my heart

still I hold, hoping to change

saying says the saying

whoever that might be

its free of friends to counts

the wrong friends to hide

truth is cheap, though I buy at great expense

borrowed words cost my stinky mouth

bad person is all I get

reaction defines my slavery

still I hold hoping to change

Comrades I love

when they lie my truth

paying the soul

costs hell screaming to save

freezing stinking mouth

is all I am called of

shut up stinky, rip my heart in out

i rather inking for my rumpus words

painting my life out

that’s when i stop mouthing.

Unpleasant odor is my middle name.

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