Well, through life, as individuals we are all entitled to our own thoughts and decisions. One of the reason we become inferior is because we give other people freedom to dominate our lives just because we lack something they have.
I discourage such doing, we end up worshiping other people more than our God. Its time to deeply realize how much you worthy and how much your life matters.
Never back down for some cheap talks from people that you can not do anything about your life. You have the energy and brain to work it out. Make that DECISION and LIVE your life.