Be Thankful

Be thankful for everything that you have in life try to cherish the people who are in your life who are always there for you,cause their strength and prayers they are the ones that lift you up, they are the ones that keeps your courage and respect you as how you are and not of what you have..

God has always been looking upon us protecting and give us our daily bread in millions way, lets praise him and worship him al days of our lives.

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What I love about Surprise… you turned out surprised.

Written by Felix Massinda

Today 16th May 2013, Its quite a memorable day when I decided to make exquisite visit to one of the greatest blogger who always rise my appetite as I am very slow in eating. As my plans started well in the morning when I left my place thinking how my surprise will be.

You all know that time when you intend to surprise someone with the visit thinking you will find them unprepared and yet it turns out on the contrary?

this is what happened, I once told Tolly Ben I would pay a visit one day and I decided to day to be a day unfortunately I found her so prepared.

She told she is always ready, so those who intends to visit her unprepared, don’t she is always in the Kitchen

This is what I had today

 

BANANA FRITTERS

BANANA FRITTERS

BANANA FRITTERS MIXED WITH CHOCOLATE SYRUP

 

Lastly I had a well home made Juice and my midmorning tea was perfect,.

I provide you with a link if you want to get a lot more of food and nutrients help visit Tolly Ben you will have more.

My Beautiful Day’; Thanks to Tolly.

 

		Midmorning Tea VIEW SLIDE SHOW DOWNLOAD ALL

 

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Why Live in the Past?

Written by Nancy Suleiman

Why is the past tempts to agonize our present and future is it the moments or the changes once lived tend to stop a part of our life into a halt…..?? it`s your choice to live as a new person or still living in the past…some past are very painful that turns us into monsters that we hate everything around us and having a negative attitude to everyone such attitude, memory, moments or even the events should be left in the past cause it blocks the breakthrough of you to become, it blocks our future, it gives shadow to our present and resulting to unbearable person in the society…

You can say u don’t mind and it`s your business to live such a painful, low, ashamed or even unwanted life.. but the truth remains no one was created to suffer.no one was born in this world to have a terrible life and if you think life is unfair to you then you should know that all that is happening to you no matter the problem, troubles and temptations.. they happens to you because your strong enough to overcome them and stand through them all….try to put yourself into someone`s else shoes and you will see how different and difficult it would be if u live his life and how miserable he will be if he lived yours……so let the past remain in the past clear the past and start new relationship, work, business and be the new you….the past stands as the experience and builder of our better future by learning through the mistakes and cherishing the moments you live.

Go out there, become you and live you to have you in yourself control for the rest of your life.

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Happy Mother`s Day

Written By Felix Massinda

As a man

a lot might agree

have been so hard to understand

the heart of a woman

is composed of

I have had scenarios

that I could not explain

sometimes I shut down my feelings

and let my mind dominates

they never do that

I have given up on so many things

she never have on me

have done so much worse on her

some I don’t even remember

she never leave me

always by my side

“You can do better than that”

are her words to me

always know what to say

at a time I badly need to hear

The true heart and love

you hold in your heart

makes you unique

now and forever more

I can not pay enough

to compensate the love

and tender care you have given to me

I can only Ask God to give millions blessing to come your way

make you healthy

and strong to overcome

I love you and always will

doesn’t matter what comes my way

you are the only true woman in my world

always you will be

I love you so much Mother

Happy Mothers` Day

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There is nothing to Fear than Fear itself.

Written by Nancy Suleiman

We normally encounter fear in many times in our lives

From recognition, how do i look , am i proper, do i look fat, do i have something on my face which goes to the question why are they staring at me, are they laughing at me and sometimes asking question to one self as surely i feel they are talking about me………..

Fear from success, ohh it`s the exam again will i fail again, what will happen if i fail, am i so stupid, am i reading the right material why do my colleague seems to know a lot more than me, will i pass, will the exam be tough, mhh i think the teacher doesn’t like me?

Fear from commitments, will this relationship work, what if i mess up, is she/he the right-one for me? am i too much? may be am demanding too much? does she truly loves me and for who i am or she got her on interest? what if she breaks my heart? what are the chances of our future? no i cant i don’t think this will work late me wait again, it`s too painful?

` Fear from achievements, this include work, personality into what you want to become, interview in works get a person to lose a job planned for him struggling with the mind will i get this job, the applicants are many, the company seems to have a lot of competition i think I’ll get fired soon?

Fear of trying to do the best simply there others capable in doing the best than you, fear of not trying to take a risk in investments and different business what if it won`t work this is ridiculous my friends will laugh at me? what if the money won`t come back no i cant i will hold to my current position it will hold me i guess….

These kind of fears makes us to not become the ideal person we want to be or better yet the examples and the best role model to family members and friends and even outsiders by the way we look, appearance, performance, and even abilities controlled by the fear in mind that we are not good enough or capable enough to stand for others, It be the example and even change to some of the people the fear within close our chances in overcoming challenges resulting to suicidal attempts and they also block our chances in different opportunities of life. Hence never enjoying what life can give us and mostly the beauty of mother nature, we all have purpose in this life you won`t know you`re purpose until you try, stand up for yourself, believe in yourself, speak out your thoughts, be creative, accept the challenges, find meaningful solution, accept who you are, be brave and have confidence no matter what and you will see the world is not a bad place to be….

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A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step

Written by Felix Massinda

The first step is the hardest… but does this mean we have to give up?

The accomplishment of life has to be fought for, Ask all those whose lives are successful and they will tell you what road they have gone through before they have stood on their feet. if you long to succeed in your life, you must commit yourself to endure every hardship that comes your way, to commit that no matter what rough road you have to go through, you wont slow down.

We face a lot pain I understand, there are two kinds of pain we encounter always, the pain of discipline and regret. whenever we start the new venture of life to pursue towards our goals in life we face pain that might stop us from going, that might discourage us because it might be a new experience we have never tried in our lives before such as hard work, sacrifice, zero budget, feeling of loneliness

At times as well we fail along the way, so that leads us to start again over and over, due to failing we blame ourselves not to be good enough, trying to compare ourselves with other successful people counting them as the only bright people who deserves better and not us at all. we end up stuck in the world of painful, stress, depression, regret. we even forget who we are and what dreams we have had before.

When you really need to make change in your life, you should stop focus on negative side of life and put IF at the beginning of your sentences and yet start with “I CAN” This will give you energy and make you be more focused to your dreams and fight positively towards what you believe in.

So today, start that project, make that call, do what you need to do to begin. Here’s a guarantee: If you work through a little pain, you’ll see a little progress. at the end you will see it all falling into your hands and that’s when you will realize the effort you had made were not for nothing.

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Learn to Accept your Life…

By Felix Massinda.

I have actually seen many people from different status of life yet they seem to live happily. Life that people wake up in the morning working hard to secure their food and home for their family.

It`s not been much of a problem to the life that people appreciates the little they have, be it living a normal life, having the best moments of their lives. Together they work, laugh, help each other, be there for one another.

The life that you live is the most expensive thing in the world, there is no any other place that you will be able to purchase life not until God the almighty grant you eternal life, so why complain to everything in your life? Why trying so hard to fit in while your life has fit in your life long time ago since birth?

Struggles to make life better are allowed, making your life better for you not for people around you to show them that you worthy fitting in. if they haven`t seen for you who you are, then will never see that no matter what you have.

There comes a time we need to appreciate the time in life when we have our own selves not forced to become someone else, remember no matter how hard we try to be someone else that someone we think of being will never breath for you. As long as you can breathe you will never be someone else.

Learn to live your life and appreciate it, focus on making it better and live good life rather than wasting your time proving to others that you worthy being in their lives. Appreciate your life, no one will appreciate it for you. Be happy.

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